A Facebook user, Mazi Ojoto, has recounted his ordeal with his wife who he tried all his best to bring to Dubai.
Whаt dоеѕ іt mean іn еmоtіоnаl tеrmѕ tо have Sоul Love?
I think I’m in the best position to come up with this kind of write-up. This is because I belong we know how to manoeuvre our way out when broke
NOTE: That a guy offers any of the aforementioned items does not necessarily mean it’s a yardstick for being broke, but most often than not, it’s one of those things we are talking about cheesy. This write-up contains exaggerations to a large extent cool
I shall discuss things broke guys normally use to entertain female visitors cheesy
10 Things Broke Guys Use To Entertain Female Visitor.
1. Gala and Soft drink
Undoubtedly, gala and soft drink are what a proportion of broke guys normally use to entertain their female visitors
2. Egg-roll and Pure Water.
Some of them will take their female visitor to an eatery and will go to the counter themselves and order for her, without even asking her what she would like to take or not. These kinds of dudes are most likely to order snacks such as egg-roll, meat pie, and soft drinks
3. Concotion Rice
This reminds me of a time a lady visited me in school. Make I no lie, na N50 remain for my hand that day after buying a bottle of kerosene used to cook concotion rice. I inquired what I should offer her and said she had no appetite. I smiled to God for answering my prayers. After about three hours, she said I should get her shawama and I began to sweat profusely. I couldn’t but serve her my concotion rice
4. Viju Milk and Cabin Biscuit
As funny as it sounds, some use it
funny as it sounds, I’m guilty of this. I have once offered garri to my female visitor. Make una no blame me ooooo, na my pocket empty that day ooooo cool
Some will give her only malt without adding anything to it. They already assume she will not eat even if they offer her food, so dem no go kuku ask
7. Indomie and Egg
Ronald4lif can bear me witness that he used to do this before his life changed for good
8. They offer Nothing
For the broke ones who are very smart, will resort to entertain her by acting like clowns. However, they will start acting like Papa Ajasco so that the lady will laugh till she leaves
9. They Borrow Generator
For those who have generation, they will borrow money to buy petrol, and for those who don’t have, they will borrow their friend’s generator. They will entertain her with movies
10 Ladies, feel free to add the last one cool
Whether you have been together for years or you just started dating, it is important for you to know if you are both satisfied with your $ex lives.
You do not want to be so focused on your own
pleasure and disregard hers. So, are you really
that good in bed or is she hoping you get done
quickly so she can go to sleep?
Let’s find out by taking a look at the top 8
signs that proves she is having fun below.
1. She’s Wet: This is a no-brainer when it
comes to $exual pleasure. Just like a man gets
obviously aroused when he is ready, a
woman’s main arousal sign is that she is wet
down there. If she does not seem “ready”
prolong the pre-intimacy as much as you can and
make sure you are hitting the right spots. She
will thank you for it.
2. Quickening Breath : Another sign of arousal is
that her breath gets quicker and more urgent,
the more excited she gets. Watch for intense
gaze and steadily quickening breath, then you
know you’ve got her.
3. She Tightens Around You : If she seems to be
getting tighter around you as you go on, this is
a sign that she is enjoying what you are doing.
A woman having fun gets tighter and wetter as
she feels more pleasured.
4. Holds You (or something else) Tighter : Does
her grip on you seem to be getting tighter?
Does she seem to be grabbing the sheets or the
headboard like her life depends on it? A
woman in the throes of extreme pa$$ion
would have an intense urge to hold on tight.
5. Toes Curl: If you are keeping a closer eye on
your partner’s reactions, you would notice
that her toes curl in the moment of pleasure.
6. She Communicates : A partner who tells you
what she likes during $ex (verbally or via
body language) is definitely having a good
time and wants more. She would not waste her
time telling you what she wants if you were
not doing a pretty good job in the first place.
7. She Climaxes : The signs above could also tell
you that she is close to orgasm and if you feel
her reach that final release, then that is your
main proof. It is almost impossible for a
woman to climax without having reached the
ultimate peak of pleasure and desire.
8. Initiates $ex: One way a woman gets turned
on for $ex is when she remembers how great
it was the last time. It is this memory that
would lead her to approach you and request
for more good times. If she is always calling
you for more, or reaching for you even when
you are both watching TV, then she obviously
cannot get enough.
1. They wear a clean bra and panties (even those who hardly change bras) just for unforeseen events.
2. They tell their parents they are going to see ‘Chioma’.
3. They come much later than schedule (just to send a signal that they aren’t desperate, even though they actually are).
4. Naïve and first timers put on some weird undies at least to restrict or perhaps delay access to their….
5. At times their phones go dead (either intentionally or energy cut). This makes the guy feel hopeless.
6. If they actually don’t want s*x, they offer to prepare an endless meal or do house chores.
7. They put their phones on silent knowing fully well that their other boyfriends would dial. For those who don’t, they harass these poor dudes over the fone.
8. Sometimes, they show up unannounced to assess the guy’s level of hygiene or to catch a cheat.
9. They counter Sekxual advances by acting moody and try to get busy with a giant novel or seasonal movie.
10. The badoo girls just get down straight to business.
Ending a relationship is never easy. But having the courage to follow through with your decision will make both you and her happier when the relationship has already passed its “best before” date. Be true to your emotions and do what’s best for you and her, here are the early signs of a broken relationship .
Before you move in the direction of your disloyal ambitions, consider the consequences it could have on not only the relationship you’ve built, but your confidence and the self-esteem of your partner. Here, we present a closer look at what cheating actually does to a couple:
What Happens When You Cheat?
As Dr. Mann noted, the part of your relationship that takes the most brutal force is your trust. This vital bone of any couplehood is what glues you together, makes you feel comfortable, and encourages you to be vulnerable together. Without it, the love you once shared is severely endangered, says Los Angeles-based psychologist Dr. Yvonne Thomas, Ph.D. “When trust gets significantly damaged, emotional and physical intimacy can become infrequent or non-existent, and a multitude of upsetting feelings such as anger, resentment, jealousy, insecurity, hurt, and/or sadness can cause disconnection,” she explains.
Another big way cheating impacts an otherwise happy couple is by fracturing your bond, begging you to question not only your past and your present, but your future, according to psychotherapist Crystal Bradshaw. “When a partner steps outside of the agreement or the contract of a monogamous relationship, the hurt partner’s own identity comes into question. ‘Was I not enough?’ The hurt partner also begins to not trust themselves, their intuition, and their decision-making process,” she explains.
This is why a gut check before heavily flirting or sleeping with someone else is essential — you’re not only toying with your Facebook relationship status, but the emotional well-being of another person, a person you love and are committed to making happy. “Cheating can do enormous damage to the self-esteem of the person who has been cheated on. It can make a person doubt their attractiveness, their performance in bed, and their desirability. It can wreak havoc on one’s sense of self,” Dr. Mann adds.
Why Do Some People Cheat in Hopes of Changing the Relationship?
Dr. Mann explains that it’s rare for a person to believe that being unfaithful might actually improve their relationship; rather, thoughts of infidelity are almost always a sign of underlying trouble in the relationship. “The number one reason why people cheat is a lack of connection in the relationship. Most people do not realize how important creating, maintaining, and nurturing connection in a relationship is. There will always be temptations, but when a couple is feeling connected, the odds of acting on those temptations go down significantly,” she explains.
And it’s not the allure of someone sexy or irresistible, but rather, a disconnect of feelings. While sexual adventures might be interesting and enticing at the start, when people start to look for love elsewhere, it’s not about making love. It’s about feeling intimate from an emotional standpoint, according to Dr. Mann. “Studies show that only 7 percent of cheating women and 8 percent of cheating men cheated due to sexual dissatisfaction. The vast majority cheated either because a lack of emotional connection in the relationship or a combination of a lack of emotional and sexual connection in the relationship,” she adds.
Bradshaw continues, noting that sometimes you might feel the urge to explore other pastures because you’re trying to make your partner change, a quest that, for most, will end with disappointment. And other times, cheating happens at random, indicating a need for more self-evaluation and reflection outside of the bounds of a relationship. “Cheating can be a way to get a partner’s attention and to facilitate the change they seek. For others, an affair can be a way to exit the relationship. Some people cheat and it has nothing to do with their partner. Happy people in happy relationships cheat. People who have no intention of ending their relationship, who deeply love their partners and they life they have created together, cheat,” she explains.
In other words, it can always happen — but how do you prevent it? And what do you do if you were unfaithful?
Can It Ever Work?
This question is an easy one, according to Dr. Mann: cheating is never, ever a good idea. Ever. But if it happens, it’s an important crossroads to pass through with someone you love and cherish, to determine if the relationship is worth working on or if it’s time to part ways. “Sometimes a crisis where a couple thinks they may lose each other makes them realize how much they value one another and inspires them to fight for the relationship. Sometimes cheating allows a couple to reassess their relationship and discover the flaws that led to the cheating. When they are both able to look at how they have contributed to the problems in the relationship and then address it, ideally with therapy, relationships can be turned around. When couples are willing to do that kind of work on their relationship, it can result in a deeper, more meaningful relationship between the two,” she explains.
Bradshaw echoes this sentiment, explaining that many couples are able to improve their relationship following the aftermath of an affair, but that it’s not the right way to provoke change or transformation because it takes a significant amount of time. And most of the time, the memory will never be completely erased. “An affair should not be the chosen catalyst to improve a relationship. Affair recovery takes a long time, it’s not something you bounce back from in a few months. The remnants of the affair will remain with you forever. When you have an affair, you make that part of your couple’s history and you have to find a way to incorporate that pain into the story of your relationship,” she explains. “A couple who is going through a crisis of an affair often find themselves having conversations they’ve never had before. Conversations that have needed to take place but never did. They will engage with each other in ways they haven’t engaged in for years, or even ever.”
What To Do if You’re Tempted
What’s the one trick that can prevent you from making a mistake you can’t take back? Bradshaw offers one word: communication. If you’ve already tried that route and feel like you’re hitting up against a wall over and over, it might be time to seek professional help in the form of therapy. And if your partner isn’t up to it? Go alone. “Sometimes you can implement the desired change within a relationship by doing your own work. Perhaps your partner will attend after you have a few sessions under your belt, or maybe through your solo work you can explore what you are getting out of the relationship and assess if it’s one you wish to stay in,” she recommends.
When a relationship is on its last leg and a breakup is inevitable, who ends it? Recognising that her habits have become annoying instead of cute is just the start. Her rude mobile phone calls mid-meal, the way she thinks she’s always right and her complete lack of respect for your opinion should all be sending you a clear message.
It is quite unfortunately that most people get obsessed with weddings, forgetting that this is the simple part, the difficult part is what comes after all the wedding buzz.
These days, the cost of living is considerably higher, especially after most people spend a lot of money n the wedding, this leads to problems in the marriage.